
The ancient language of Sanskrit has been around since the 4th century and i found it rather surprising that this word Karunya which is translated into great compassion has been around since then.
It is interesting to note that human kind has found it noteworthy that this word great compassion should be recorded through the annals of history. I believe that the only reason why it was recorded was because it is a significant word, a word that has impacted the lives of us humans since the dawn of time.
What then is compassion? I like the definition i found on answers.com, defining compassion as the Deep awareness of the suffering of another coupled with the wish to relieve it.
Taking a deeper look into this definition, i found 2 clauses which co-exist.
a) Deep awareness of the suffering of another
b) The wish / desire to relieve it
More often than not, i find that in this day and age, Compassion has often been mistaken-ed for pity or even sympathy, where doing something nice (usually a token act for someone less well off) is just an action to ease our conscience or have that sense of altruism for ourselves.
Yes i agree that such feelings are not wrong, but shouldn there be more to compassion than just the happy feelings of doing something nice for someone else? Shouldn it benefit the person we are helping more than it benefits us?
Another perspective i took on the word compassion is the realization that it is an amalgamate of 2 words, Compass and Passion. The former being an instrument used by travelers or explorers in helping them find their bearings, chartering new frontiers and in a hope of getting to their destination. The latter being a strong emotion or feeling.
Putting this breakdown together with the earlier definition of compassion, we have
a) Deep awareness of the suffering of another
b) The wish / desire to relieve it
c) The tool to help one find direction and reach destination
d) Strong emotion / feeling
May i thus suggest that the way one find directions (purpose) and reaching our destination (dreams) is through the means of having strong emotions and feelings of the suffering of another and in turn, having the wish and desire to relieve it.
In the current wake of the Haiti quake (i didnt mean for that to rhyme), i start to wonder about the things in my daily life, sights, observations that invoke compassion..
With that, i am thankful of the small sacrifices, people who have acted on compassion - the student who buys the homeless man a meal, the MP who sacrifices time with his family for his residents or even the unsung volunteer who spends time with the aged at old folks homes.
Ultimately, i guess with the occupation of the duties of daily life, it is definitely tough to find people who have the heart (compassion), hands (the ability to do something well) and head (planning, execution, foresight) that will make a tangible positive difference in the lives of fellow Singaporeans and less fortunate in this world.